There are lessons we learned as kids without even realizing it.
How to move in the world.
How to carry yourself.
How to speak your truth.
For many of us, these things felt natural—almost automatic. Maybe it was the time we grew up in, or the environment around us. Either way, there was a shared understanding. A quiet agreement about what was acceptable… and what wasn’t.
We knew the basics of social behavior. And somewhere in all of that—without anyone needing to sit us down and explain it—we learned something deeper:
Self-respect.
We knew where the line was. Not because someone drew it with rules and consequences, but because we felt it. A subtle inner signal that said: this is okay… this is not.
But as life happens, things get complicated.
We start bending.
Adjusting.
Accepting things we once wouldn’t.
Sometimes to fit in.
Sometimes to be loved.
Sometimes just to survive a moment.
Little by little, that line we once knew so clearly begins to blur.
Self-respect isn’t something you lose all at once. It fades quietly—in the moments you stay silent when you should speak, in the times you say yes when your whole being is screaming no, in the way you allow less than what you know you deserve.
And so much of what we once learned about self-respect seems to be disappearing.
The new social environment—the so-called social media—teaches something dangerous: that it’s okay to lose yourself for likes, and okay to degrade yourself for attention.
But here’s the truth:
If you don’t love yourself, if you don’t respect yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? If you can’t meet these basic needs within, how can you expect others to meet them for you?
Self-respect is simple—and powerful.
It’s better to have one like from yourself than a million from people who don’t care about your integrity.
Be honest with yourself.
Be selfish in the right way.
Don’t let anyone dishonor you with words or actions.
Close the door. Don’t engage. Protect your energy. Protect your dignity.
That line you learned as a kid—it never disappeared. It’s still there, waiting for you to see it again, to feel it again, to choose it again.
Self-respect isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about coming back to yourself.
Over and over again.
– TodayWaves
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